I'm too damned sensitive. I take much to heart and allow "it"- whatever "it" is to fester like a big ass boil. I'm self pitying... I feel so awful for myself when things go badly, and or when people do- what they will ultimately do: disappoint. To err is human.. to allow repeat offenders room to fuck you again? Bad for business... and very bad for you. It's taken me some time to realize the definition of life.. no not the text book definition of life... the true break down of what this merry go round is really all about...I'll be brief in my explanation of things:
If you have love - treasure it- nothing is guaranteed
If you have joy- place the ultimate value in that feeling- life is short
Expect disappointments daily- life is designed to require that you call on a higher power to make it through trials and tribulations... exercise faith
And at the end of the day... hold on to your power. Never allow another human being to take your energy and run with it. You were born alone, you will die alone... and every single solitary day, you have a moment when you are totally solo- you have to love yourself, absent of all the bells and whistles we seek to acquire in our short stay on this earth. As for me... if I've ever cried a tear for you, if my heart has ever ached for you, if you 've ever told a lie on me, betrayed me- left me wondering why.... your welcome for the temporary use of my time and energy... but today is my day, and I choose to take my power back..
With Love,
-Lo
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
A Warning to the fellas...
To my fellas- I have to advise you that the woman in your life- is hip to your game- if you have shit going on. She knows.. If you don't then you are rare- but read this anyway and tell your homeboy- Knowledge is key.
She's watching you- she knows when and why you let "certain calls" go to voicemail. If she doesn't know who's calling- she's going to find out. If you are a lucky man- she will confront you and let you know how fucked up she thinks you are- right before she shares how badly you've made her feel. Yes, you will get cursed out and have to dodge some flying objects- but you can still count yourself lucky. The days of that woman are coming to the end.
The new millenium chick- will simply , pop a tub of popcorn and watch your little movie as it plays out. She is taking notes, and asking no questions... She is watching and learning. She's learning to hold that shit in- and swallow it you- just like ya'll like it...or so you thought! All I have to say is, if the day comes that you tell your woman - you and the fellas are going away for the weekend- and she smiles and packs your ass a lunch for the long ride... you might wanna stay home... I'm talking to these ladies,man... I know what's going on... You and only you are responsible for keeping your good girl- just that. Ya'll make us nuts!!!
We like it tho'
-Lo/2009
She's watching you- she knows when and why you let "certain calls" go to voicemail. If she doesn't know who's calling- she's going to find out. If you are a lucky man- she will confront you and let you know how fucked up she thinks you are- right before she shares how badly you've made her feel. Yes, you will get cursed out and have to dodge some flying objects- but you can still count yourself lucky. The days of that woman are coming to the end.
The new millenium chick- will simply , pop a tub of popcorn and watch your little movie as it plays out. She is taking notes, and asking no questions... She is watching and learning. She's learning to hold that shit in- and swallow it you- just like ya'll like it...or so you thought! All I have to say is, if the day comes that you tell your woman - you and the fellas are going away for the weekend- and she smiles and packs your ass a lunch for the long ride... you might wanna stay home... I'm talking to these ladies,man... I know what's going on... You and only you are responsible for keeping your good girl- just that. Ya'll make us nuts!!!
We like it tho'
-Lo/2009
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