Feed him :Cook in high heels- and little else; try new and interesting recipes- keep his palate surprised
“Love him up”: Every man is some one’s son- and mami’s take care of their babies; right? Hold his face, look into his eyes, stroke his cheeks, give him random warm embraces, stroke head/hair- lay his head on your bosom… Let him hear what he does to your heartbeat ;)
Listen: Yes, ladies- we ARE always right. He knows that- if he has some shit to get off his chest: Let him.
Let him breathe: Boys night out= Girls night out, DUH!
Support: Everyone has a dream-it’s NO one’s place to shit on them.
*Spare him the drama that transpires between you and your girlfriends: He doesn’t care and you sound just as catty in the role of the victim as whomever you’re painting as the villain. *
Speak sweetly: Why not? ;)
Debate intelligently: It’s sexy, it’s mature, and often allows for a better understanding of the situation at hand.
Demonstrate independence, and retain a sense of self- It’s ok to be “busy” .If he wanted a beck and call girl; he could pay for one.
Keep it sexy: My abuelita, said to me once in very plain Spanglish: Mama you don’t know what ur man sees in the streets before he gets home to you. It’s your job to do better than the streets.
And FInally....
Laugh lots
Smile more…
Suck dick daily ;)
